I haven’t seen my twin flame in over a year
I haven’t seen my #twin in over a year,
he lives out of state.
We talk every few days and has still a great connection and understanding with each other.
The last time I saw him he came into town for the weekend and I thought things would be different with his visit because he said it would,
he would spend more time, but he came to my house for about an hour,
did his business and made up an excuse to leave.
I wa so so disappointed,
I stopped talking to him for a few weeks after because he said he would spend more time and he didn’t.
So yesterday a year later he calls me and tells me he is coming in town.
I’m like when, he said soon, he wanted to let me know,
I said cool, he said he would stop by to see me when he makes it in town early morning,
I would be his first stop as usual.
I told him no I don’t want to be your first stop,
It doesn’t make me feel special,
like he thought, and I don’t want you to come and do your business and leave and us not spend any time together.
I said no we are doing this my way this time.
So he called me 5 am I’m assuming he is in town,
he’s calling to come see me as usual,
but I was sleep so I missed his call he text and was like “really” I was sleep.
I woke up saw the missed calls and text.
Was I wrong for not wanting to repeat the usual pattern of him coming and leaving and not spending the time he said he would when he’s away and how much he misses me and can’t wait to see me,
but when he comes in town it’s like a wham bam thank you ma’am moment and I’m at a place in my life that is not ok, I don’t care who you are.
Every connection doesn’t have to be about #sex.
Come spend time and chill without having to find an excuse to leave.
Plus I don’t like how it makes me feel when he does this everytime he comes in town.
I’m putting my foot down, I don’t care if he gets upset,
this time I love me and I’m setting the rules and boundaries for my peace and happiness,
twin or not.
He has to do better and only way for him to do that is show him better than I can t ll him.
What are y’all thoughts???
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